Tomorrow I will take an airplane, then a train and then a bus and if all goes well, end up in Hå in South Sweden. I will give my phone away and start a three month long Kria Yoga retreat in an ashram.
I have left my blog untouched for over a year. This will be a kind of exit entry as together with my phone I will also go cold turkey on Internet browsing, skype, emails, movies, facebook, newspapers, you name it.
How did I come to this?
I suppose the whole last year has been paving the way. 2014 was a great year where I was officially a project manager for 3 months, but had handed over the tasks to my successor and considered coming to the office more for social life. Otherwise I continued teaching yoga and when the office job finished, started to do it full time. Except I didn't really.
I had decided to enjoy my refound freedom and do a lot of travelling, try out new activities, put myself in new situations, take up anything that I found thrilling, interesting, fun, useful and/or challenging. Something every month. Almost.
I started off with a 5 day hunger hike in Estonia in April. 1 preparation day and then 4 days in the woods. No food. No tent. Massive bonfires and a lot of tea. Not alone of course. We were about 22 people. My friends could not believe, that there even exists 11 Estonian MEN that would ever do that. But they are real. So were the women. It was such a great group of people. I had not spent so much time with so many Estonians in 8 years. And I took with me the feeling that moving back to Estonia would not be such a bad idea. Interesting things are happening, fascinating people are doing it. Consuming only tea and no food was surprisingly easy. I was always waiting when is the low point coming, but it didn't. I can already say, that in November, when I went on my second hike, it was much much harder.
In May I went volunteering in Croatia and Bosnia. SEFF movie festival. Riding through the scenic countryside of Croatia and Bosnia and showing short movies and cartoons to kids to raise their ecological awareness. 10 days, 600km on a bicycle. It was fantastic! Except maybe first two days when it was pouring down rain. Constantly. I could see first hand the floods in Balkans. Hotel where we left some of our luggage, put them in the celler and then when the river rose 2m, our suitcases were soaked. Good the windows were not open...
In June I took my mum on packpacking holiday to Andalusia, Spain. Seville, Cadiz, Cordoba. My mum was such a sport that when our first Airbnb host took her, hand in hand, to show where the bus station is while explaining non stop stuff in Spanish, my mum just smiled and went along with it. And it was so hot that by the end of the holiday my mums voice altered. She figured her vocal cords were swollen with the heat. It was fun though. And we have a picture of us praying in the mosque in Cordoba, which I could keep only because I managed to trick the security guards by deleting some other unsuccessful pictures.
In July I went surfing in Lanzarote. One week holiday in a paradise where you can just put the key under your doormat when you leave the house. 4th and 5th day of the surfing were really fun. By that time I had made my unique stand up method work and I could actually give a high five while surfing and passing my teacher. Yeah!
Second part of July I took the chance to soak in the sun in Estonia. What a summer. Heatwave of constantly 25+ degrees for over three weeks. With Jana we wanted to go hiking and chose the furthest possible point from Tallinn. It was worth it. Sleeping in random places such as by a private lake or washing hair in the toilet of the cafeteria of the highest mountain in Estonia. Even took a "city break" and went to see a summertour of some estonian pop artists. Great moments. Astrid came to Estonia as well and we rented trek bikes and took off to South Estonia as well. We chose a route where for 5 days we had no shops. Cooking food on fire, canoying for 2 days, taking moments of silence on the river, and using bio-sunblock and extreme 90% DEET mosquito repellent Ben at the same time. Ben was our best friend.
August was a full month of working. Significant for its own reasons.
September took me to 2 weeks camping retreat in Devon, England. A Buddhist meditation retreat where I found myself at 10pm in the hotwaterbath outside, watching the stars. Inspiring teachers, my favourite tree in the forest, amazing blackberries and couple of new friends I made despite the fact that the retreat itself was in silence.
Second half of October I went again to Estonia and before going to the hungerhike, I went to "meet the dark". One week solitary retreat in a room underground in complete darkness. Once you really are able to look straight into the darkness and let it in, something will change they say. There were some exercises I got with me that I had to do which did turn out to be fascinating and revealing...Think back each year of your life and remember 2 most important events/things/situations for yourself. Get them in the right order. They don't need to be big events as such, but most important personally. Start from today, think back year by year until being born or as close as you get and then then come back to the present day the same way.
Once you start remembering, its amazing what images and feelings come up. And once the whole picture is together, its fascinating to see if there is any pattern. I suppose there usually is. I had.
And now I know what is absolute darkness. Sometimes it seems having eyes closed is a little bit lighter. Having no light, no time, no reference of time, I still kept the inner clock pretty accurate. I knew when it is night or day, morning or evening. On the seventh day I packed my stuff and was ready to leave. I had just wondered to myself that it probably is about 6PM when they came to get me, it turned out it was 11PM. So I was 5h behind. The few stars in sky were so bright, that I got dizzy and almost lost my balance. Next day was sunny and I remember having breakfast and just looking through the window and admiring how very beautiful everything is outside. The flowers, the trees, the sky, wow.
Second half of November and December were time for Brussels. I read a book from Marshall Rosenberg "Nonviolent Communication" and tried to put it in practice. It's tricky, but I have seen glimpses of how it can benefit in getting from people what you want and move towards understanding what is really behind what somebody said and getting yourself understood.
I was teaching yoga, enjoyed time with people close to me and had a beautiful reflection of the new year fireworks from the windows of de Brouckere office buildings. Brussels authorities guided the late arrivals to the street where all you could see was some faint glow of the city fireworks in the sky on the other side of the building. But the atmosphere was so happy and energetic and I didn't hear anybody complain. It was a great note to start 2015 with.
Last days have included catching up offline and online with many friends. Knowing that for next 3 months picking up a phone is not an option is the cryptonite for postponing. And I can only imagine how excited I will be after 18th of April to see and hear from people I carry in my heart regardless of where I am.
I have left my blog untouched for over a year. This will be a kind of exit entry as together with my phone I will also go cold turkey on Internet browsing, skype, emails, movies, facebook, newspapers, you name it.
How did I come to this?
I suppose the whole last year has been paving the way. 2014 was a great year where I was officially a project manager for 3 months, but had handed over the tasks to my successor and considered coming to the office more for social life. Otherwise I continued teaching yoga and when the office job finished, started to do it full time. Except I didn't really.
I had decided to enjoy my refound freedom and do a lot of travelling, try out new activities, put myself in new situations, take up anything that I found thrilling, interesting, fun, useful and/or challenging. Something every month. Almost.
I started off with a 5 day hunger hike in Estonia in April. 1 preparation day and then 4 days in the woods. No food. No tent. Massive bonfires and a lot of tea. Not alone of course. We were about 22 people. My friends could not believe, that there even exists 11 Estonian MEN that would ever do that. But they are real. So were the women. It was such a great group of people. I had not spent so much time with so many Estonians in 8 years. And I took with me the feeling that moving back to Estonia would not be such a bad idea. Interesting things are happening, fascinating people are doing it. Consuming only tea and no food was surprisingly easy. I was always waiting when is the low point coming, but it didn't. I can already say, that in November, when I went on my second hike, it was much much harder.
In May I went volunteering in Croatia and Bosnia. SEFF movie festival. Riding through the scenic countryside of Croatia and Bosnia and showing short movies and cartoons to kids to raise their ecological awareness. 10 days, 600km on a bicycle. It was fantastic! Except maybe first two days when it was pouring down rain. Constantly. I could see first hand the floods in Balkans. Hotel where we left some of our luggage, put them in the celler and then when the river rose 2m, our suitcases were soaked. Good the windows were not open...
In June I took my mum on packpacking holiday to Andalusia, Spain. Seville, Cadiz, Cordoba. My mum was such a sport that when our first Airbnb host took her, hand in hand, to show where the bus station is while explaining non stop stuff in Spanish, my mum just smiled and went along with it. And it was so hot that by the end of the holiday my mums voice altered. She figured her vocal cords were swollen with the heat. It was fun though. And we have a picture of us praying in the mosque in Cordoba, which I could keep only because I managed to trick the security guards by deleting some other unsuccessful pictures.
In July I went surfing in Lanzarote. One week holiday in a paradise where you can just put the key under your doormat when you leave the house. 4th and 5th day of the surfing were really fun. By that time I had made my unique stand up method work and I could actually give a high five while surfing and passing my teacher. Yeah!
Second part of July I took the chance to soak in the sun in Estonia. What a summer. Heatwave of constantly 25+ degrees for over three weeks. With Jana we wanted to go hiking and chose the furthest possible point from Tallinn. It was worth it. Sleeping in random places such as by a private lake or washing hair in the toilet of the cafeteria of the highest mountain in Estonia. Even took a "city break" and went to see a summertour of some estonian pop artists. Great moments. Astrid came to Estonia as well and we rented trek bikes and took off to South Estonia as well. We chose a route where for 5 days we had no shops. Cooking food on fire, canoying for 2 days, taking moments of silence on the river, and using bio-sunblock and extreme 90% DEET mosquito repellent Ben at the same time. Ben was our best friend.
August was a full month of working. Significant for its own reasons.
September took me to 2 weeks camping retreat in Devon, England. A Buddhist meditation retreat where I found myself at 10pm in the hotwaterbath outside, watching the stars. Inspiring teachers, my favourite tree in the forest, amazing blackberries and couple of new friends I made despite the fact that the retreat itself was in silence.
Second half of October I went again to Estonia and before going to the hungerhike, I went to "meet the dark". One week solitary retreat in a room underground in complete darkness. Once you really are able to look straight into the darkness and let it in, something will change they say. There were some exercises I got with me that I had to do which did turn out to be fascinating and revealing...Think back each year of your life and remember 2 most important events/things/situations for yourself. Get them in the right order. They don't need to be big events as such, but most important personally. Start from today, think back year by year until being born or as close as you get and then then come back to the present day the same way.
Once you start remembering, its amazing what images and feelings come up. And once the whole picture is together, its fascinating to see if there is any pattern. I suppose there usually is. I had.
And now I know what is absolute darkness. Sometimes it seems having eyes closed is a little bit lighter. Having no light, no time, no reference of time, I still kept the inner clock pretty accurate. I knew when it is night or day, morning or evening. On the seventh day I packed my stuff and was ready to leave. I had just wondered to myself that it probably is about 6PM when they came to get me, it turned out it was 11PM. So I was 5h behind. The few stars in sky were so bright, that I got dizzy and almost lost my balance. Next day was sunny and I remember having breakfast and just looking through the window and admiring how very beautiful everything is outside. The flowers, the trees, the sky, wow.
Second half of November and December were time for Brussels. I read a book from Marshall Rosenberg "Nonviolent Communication" and tried to put it in practice. It's tricky, but I have seen glimpses of how it can benefit in getting from people what you want and move towards understanding what is really behind what somebody said and getting yourself understood.
I was teaching yoga, enjoyed time with people close to me and had a beautiful reflection of the new year fireworks from the windows of de Brouckere office buildings. Brussels authorities guided the late arrivals to the street where all you could see was some faint glow of the city fireworks in the sky on the other side of the building. But the atmosphere was so happy and energetic and I didn't hear anybody complain. It was a great note to start 2015 with.
Last days have included catching up offline and online with many friends. Knowing that for next 3 months picking up a phone is not an option is the cryptonite for postponing. And I can only imagine how excited I will be after 18th of April to see and hear from people I carry in my heart regardless of where I am.
